Name the Frauds: Salvage Masculinity

A Dāka Aside…

It's not what you think it is. It's not how you're doing it.

Men need to seriously scrutinize their behavior and do some damage control before it's too late. We are the images of divine masculinity, we are gods but are acting like a pack of dogs in heat.

Freaks like this are giving us all a bad name!

This is an excerpt from the recent Dharma Guidance posted by Daka Karuna on the Tantra for Gay and Bisexual Men site. It's a tough, objective look at the depraved direction men are taking on social media like Twitter, and the reinforcement of the stereotype of gay men as perverts and predators. We are not perverts and predators; we are gods but so very few of us act the part. Time we did some damage control and time we grow up and take adult, mature responsibility for our group!

Excerpt...

There’s no one who appreciates and worships masculine beauty more than I do. I love beauty so much that it has become a spiritual experience for me; I have experienced God in masculinity, and I teach and share that experience with other Warriors. That’s why I so pity those men and boys who find it necessary to expose themselves, masturbate, fornicate promiscuously and then to publish their depravity on social media. How many cocks do you have to see before you have seen enough? How many loveless and self-loathing men do you have to see masturbating or fucking before you end up looking for the next cheap thrill? Who cares how big your penis is or how long? It’s simply weird to see another man staring into a cellphone playing with his dick and looking fascinated! It’s even more bizarre to know he’s doing that to post on Twitter or some other meeting place for sick animals. I have to wonder how anyone could possibly want to be with someone like that and say they could be happy. I wonder how any man could want to spend his life with a man like that and say he actually trusts him.

Here’s the actual base problem: Society has been telling us that we are simply not good enough, not well enough, not handsome enough, not fit enough, not attractive enough, not masculine enough. And most men believe that toxic conditioning and take the stereotypes hook line and sinker. Most men stupidly accept everything they’re offered because they believe the brainwashing. It’s no wonder most men are too self-loathing to think that they’d ever be accepted by other men. It’s no wonder they choose to degrade and to dishonor themselves so cheaply and to measure their humanity and their masculinity by the number of “likes,” followers, or retweets they get. And you don’t think that’s sick?!?

Degrading men and masculinity to the lowest possible level serves society very well, but has catastrophic effects on men and masculinity. PC (“political correctness”) and women have reduced men to a pile of quivering shit. Society has reduced him to a cash cow, rather a steer, that is, a ball-less male item of livestock that is good only to work and then to be slaughtered.

The pandemic of inferiority inflicted on men has robbed them of their most vital asset: their masculine spirit! You’re not good enough is the message broadcast to men today. Your skin’s not clear enough. Buy this. You’re not fit enough. Buy this membership. You aren’t healthy enough. Take this supplement. You don’t have enough energy. Take this. Your teeth aren’t white enough! Your skin’s not smooth enough! You’re too hairy! You’re too smooth! Your eyeglasses are too old! You’re too old! You’re too intense! You’re too nutz! Your dick isn’t long enough, thick enough! Your ass is too big, too small! And the list goes on and on and on. And guess what? Most men buy into this nonsense because they have not gotten out of the hole that society has dug for them. They are stuck in the anal-genital stage, they are animal-men, they have accepted the herd mentality, and they’re quite stupidly happy.

And so they stand there stupidly sticking out their tongues, staring into their cellphones, wanking, fucking, spreading, cuming, making certain to get it all on the video, so they can post it on social media and get likes, retweets, and so many admiring friends. Sad.

The vast minority of us, the Warriors and the heroes, follow a different course, one that allows us to adore who we are, to respect ourselves, to attain self-awareness and self-knowledge, to awaken the divine masculine spirit that lives within us. As men, we love men and their masculine vulnerability; we adore another man as a god. We can do that because we have a Warrior spirit, we have accepted homoeroticism and have rejected the self-loathing internalized homophobia of the narcissists, the exhibitionists, and the pervs.

The majority of men today. Animal-man.

The superficial reader may accuse me of doing the same negative conditioning by pointing out that the majority of men are paśu (पशु) or animal-type, and furthering the already negative self-impression made by societal bashing of men. But I would point out that in contrast with society I have no vested interest in whether men awaken or stay dead asleep; I have no agenda of control; I have nothing to gain by pointing out the fact that the majority of men in today’s western world are disordered and sociopaths. That is not a criticism nor a judgement, it is an observation and a statement of fact.

I would invite any reader to debate the fact that today’s men are childish, angry, defensive, and have an abject fear of rejection or failure, two factors that serve as excellent teachers of survival. Prove me wrong and I’ll learn from my error. But proof requires facts and truth, not just defensiveness.

The homoerotic Warrior, the “hero” type, is spiritually awakening or awakened, and doesn’t have to search outside of himself to find himself. He is his own true self. He also realizes that he is part of something greater, something transcendent, and he sees that in his Tāntric Lover, whom he worships as an embodied deity, the physical manifestation of the divine masculine spirit.

This is nothing new, guys! This has been a fact of life since before history. Men in every ancient civilization faced the same situation as we modern men do. It seems to be in the nature of being human. There are us and there are the others; there are the Warriors and there are the slaves. Some of us train to be Warriors; the rest are contend just surviving, eating, drinking, fucking, sleeping, and repeating the tiresome cycle until they die their animal death.

That’s just not good enough for the those of us who can accept our true nature. We need and have something better: We are the Warriors of Homoerotic Tantra.

True masculinity is a Warrior on the outside and a soft vulnerable creature on the inside.
It's a natural balance.

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