Tragedy of Bicurious
Insights from Dāka Karuṇā दाक करुणा [caption id="attachment_282" align="aligncenter" width="507"] Hey! We're not gay! We're bicurious! Introduction Under most conditions, a man knows where he wants to be in terms of erotic love and sensuality; he may deny his orientation but he knows deep within what he wants. While I hesitate to teach that anyone is exclusively heterosexual or homosexual, neither do I want to acquiesce to the claims of some that they are perfectly bisexual. What does bother me, rather what irritates me to distraction are the men who come to me, having made important life-cycle decisions, and refer themselves as “bicurious.” I have noted in another article that male, human sexuality is a continuum, and noted that the exclusively male love is similarly very rare in terms of balanced homoeroticism. So, at about the midpoint in this linear representation, we have the fence-sitters, the bisexual, as they like to call themsel